On the Misunderstanding of Bisexuality

You may have heard a lot of jokes between the sexes, the child's sexual orientation and the like. Most people still can not accept bisexuality, which brings a lot of confusion, anxiety in fact on the performance of the people on the network Reds Tila Tequila anger.

Ironically, part of the reason why bisexuality can not be accepted is because he has a hidden connection with many bad cultures. In order to achieve our goal, I want to define bisexuality as a person to have different sexes for two different sexes. Generally, the definition of bisexuality uses the term "color gamut" and " "," Frankenstein homosexuality "," gender "linked.

In this article, I want to eliminate the greatest misunderstanding and misunderstanding of bisexuality, tell you some new ideas, so that you feel bisexual and a "cycle", a "door", "cold" Or "university" as normal.

1, bisexuals are very promiscuous

Ok i will be the first to admit if a peanut butter sticks on the road looking at me I'll rape to it, but that does not mean that bisexuals will have more choices because of having more sexual partners promiscuous. Recently, a friend sent me an e-mail, said: "I am glad I am not bisexual, because I will be men and women at the same time refused." Naturally, some bisexual did not implement monogamy System, they also want to go with as many people as possible, but each person may be like this way to sex ah Perhaps the more correct argument is that we all become lustful potential, whether we are bisexual.

2, bisexual woman only when drunk is a woman "sex"

We make this woman "drunken homosexual", yes, they do exist, but not usually outside the university campus or "David Lawrence" party inside. Of course, the world also like Madonna or "Britney Spears" Britannia X way, although it is not so much like a speculation to the United States as a gimmick that is more like naked open gay skills trading. Katy Perry's song "I Kissed a Girl" is the same speculation, she is so tepid, looks like a downright joke. "I have a boy, but I'm drunk! I have a boyfriend! This is human nature, but I am really rebellious!" Put her song and the goddess of men together, like " You really like a gay "and you will get" Out "magazine's award (I am not joking. She can really be the 2009 annual figures ah). In addition to bisexual stars and those debauchery girls, I can guarantee that most bisexual girls will be whistled by the chaos of the playboy annoying, if they are more cheating girls will be angry.

Do you really know how to make love?

Love is an art.

Sexual life, though not all of your life, is also a very important part.

Sex is the soul of communication as the main body, not rigidly adhere to what way, there is no formula to follow.

Both men and women understand the basic skills and understand the basic skills, learning will only benefit without harm. We must understand the different characteristics of men and women: men are sexual impulsive, women are sexually passive.

First, get along before sex.
A woman's prelude is the moment you want to see a man, or the moment you meet a man.
When a woman makes love, she puts the situation of the day into her lingering. If the man is not with her in the affair and panic to end the "fight", then, first send flowers to her! No money to buy a bunch, buy a bar! Meet a little gift to the woman; take some time to learn a lot of love inside the novel described, as she took a walk, chatting, to a woman like any woman like the affectionate embrace. Women need these, no words, women will be disgusted, unless she and this man is simply a "transaction". Men, please use the time, love before and the woman romantic get along, and her sexual fantasies resonate, so that she put all this into your sex with you.

Second, full prelude.
Full prelude must be very, very full prelude. A lot of men from the dry, the woman is not excited, he spit what saliva to replace the woman's secretions, women can not resent it? Even if the man can make her orgasm, she will not be satisfied, this climax is not quality. Because this is only the climax of her physical instinct, and can not represent her psychological climax. For women, her psychological climax, than the physical instinct of the climax is also important. The climax of a woman should be a "climax", including "hardware" and "software", then the physical and psychological climax. In the novel, often men have sex, kissed the woman's body description. In fact, men do not need to make love every time, are kissed the woman's body, but you can use her body or kiss her ears, especially sucking her ears instead. Ear, is one of the most sensitive places for women, women are most vulnerable to language provocative. Praise her! Even if she is not too beautiful, but also praise her.

Sexual skills: ten high-end sex skills(2)

6. A better sexual intercourse

Ordinary pillows are the most easily overlooked sexual intercourse toys, using one or two pillows can increase your sex life tonight.

1) With the pillow in the back of his support: the man likes to watch you give him oral sex, so with a pillow to support him, he can very clearly see you do everything to him.

2) put the pillow under his chest: it can make his neck in an ideal and comfortable angle and you oral sex.

3) Pill the pillow in the corner: for lightning sex to create a new space, without leaving any traces.

7. A better location

Everyone knows Y Ti, but you may not know that the cervix is also a happy center, the cervix has a rich highly sensitive nerve endings. According to a female research organization found that 106 healthy women with knowledge, Only half of the people knew that rubbing the cervix with the tip of the stem repeatedly would cause orgasm. "PhDs said: There may be more women who have never reached orgasm in this way, lying down and trying to lift up their legs , Which can shorten the Y-channel catheter, so that Y stem easier access to the cervix.

8. A more beautiful orgasm

To enjoy the most enthusiastic, most satisfied with the sex, whole life into the sex to bring you happiness.According to a recent survey, those who enjoy the highest degree of satisfaction and orgasm lasting the longest woman, In the process of sexual intercourse, it is the least likely to distract the process of sexual intercourse, which means that they focus on the awakening of sexual desire and the pleasant feeling of sexuality in the process of sexual intercourse, which is distracted by the fact that they have never received orgasms The main reason is that they are worried about their own face in sexual intercourse, if you worry about their appearance when making love, and this uneasy and dissatisfied, the two sides is difficult to make pleasant sexual intercourse to go below. Here are some worry about their own Practice, they make you can not be fully into the beautiful sexual intercourse.

1) Turn off the lights during sexual intercourse and proceed in the dark

2) Never let your sex partner see your nudity

3) very worried about your sexual intercourse when your partner how to look at your image

In order to prevent the anxiety of the appearance and can not make themselves happy in sexual intercourse, so that they completely indulge in mutual care, touch, caress and kiss the feeling, try it tonight.

9. Better sexual irritation

According to the point of view of family history of clinical medicine, the most reliable way to perceive sexuality is to use your nose: because sexuality and smell have the closest connection, in order to make you take full advantage of your perception of sex, there are some practical Suggest:

(1) Experience your feelings: remember the best smell of each other and the first time you feel it.

(2) make you close to each other as much as possible: when he travels, put on his shirt in bed.When you travel, in order to reduce your distance with him put his clothes into your luggage.

(3) after sexual intercourse, once again experience its feeling: love after the experience of the smell of sheets, while asking his attention.

(4) from your battle to make up for the damage: from your memory to evoke the smell of his sexual desire.

10. Choose a better time to make lov

According to a study of 115 women aged 23-45, it was found that the frequency of your orgasm was higher and more enjoyable at any time of the month on the fifth day after your menstrual period. "The best time for women to feel is after menstrual bleeding and before the onset of premenstrual syndrome," said Dr. Psychiatry, who suggested that after each menstrual period, 5-10 days is your best sexual intercourse time.

Sexual skills: ten high-end sex skills(1)

Good sex can make two people's feelings more solid, and after a passion for love, wedding passion, the sex change becomes a single and boring, it is time to change your dull sex, the following health line Xiaobian to everyone Share ten sex skills, get back love first love tonight to try it.

1. A better way of oral sex

If the condition, the two oral sex can be carried out on the stairs: the woman with a pillow pad sitting on the stairs, male partner sitting in the middle of the two thighs on the next floor of the stairs, which not only make the man's neck and head better Activities, but also make the woman have a better vision and more convenient from the sexual organs of the sex organs to stimulate the lips.

2. more sexual prelude

If he suddenly swiftly inserted to make you very excited? Maybe you need to let him relax. Let him lie down quietly, while caressing him, and kissing for about 30 minutes. He does not necessarily return. If a man does not like this Try, he is usually the kind of hurry busy foreplay, there will be no satisfying sex life.

3. more morning make love

When you do not want to see you at night, the drunken sex partner is, the expert suggests that you lay on the right side of your partner in the morning, lift your right leg, put his right leg under your right leg and left leg , Make sure that his right thigh is between your legs, insert his Y stems into your Y Road, adjust the upper body, make you very comfortable to get to the other side.When you are tired when this posture is also very applicable, Experts point out that "this position can make the Y stem very easy and comfortable to insert, both sides do not have to support each other, you can also slightly change the posture.

4. More intimacy

"Want to get you incredible orgasm, you need more partners with the partner; you all need to have a feeling of being trusted and locked," said Dr. Lin, in order to build this wonderful feeling, you You can nude: back to the wall to sit down, so that your partner head on your thigh, gentle to use your arms around him. Feel each other's warmth, breathing and heartbeat. And then change the location of each other , Repeat the above action.

5. more wonderful kiss

"The lips are very sensitive; in fact only Y Ti has more nerves and higher sensitivity than lips," he says, and he often suggests changing your performance based on the following five kissing techniques.

1) the two lips touch: you and sexual partners in the lip between each other, as you go to catch the puddle is falling from the spoon.

2) tongue method: the tongue below the organization is very sensitive, like the upper lips below the uplift.

3) full of love nibble

4) sucking: sucking each other's tongue, stimulate the following salivary glands, but the other side to produce sweet saliva.

5) blowing method: inhalation and aspiration of the other side of the wet lips can in particular provoke sexual desire.

Four sex skills make you cool more durable

Men's sexual skills is basically to give women a greater pleasure and impact, and women with the purpose of sexual skills is not the same, they want to extend the men's sexual intercourse time, so that short-term love to change the long-term start. The following four sex skills is absolutely practical, easy to use, there is a demand of friends can try to see the husband and wife sex skills.

Sex skills 1, to change the female male position
  By you in the upper, active twitching, impact and bumps, and control the intensity, rhythm and swing range. Let him try to be in a passive, inaction state. For half an hour or even more than an hour later, when you have emotional excitement, but also reduced to male superior, led by him to the common climax.

Sex skills 2, reduce the sensitivity of the penis
  A more practical approach is to use a higher quality but thicker condom. Thicker condoms help reduce the sensitivity of the penis head. Another way to reduce the sensitivity of the penis head is to use a special ointment. The role of this ointment is to make the penis numb, so that the penis strong, sex longer time. This type of ointment can be purchased at the regular supplies store.

Sex skills 3, regulate breathing, reduce the "level of stress" level
Told him to be in the climax before coming, try to do slow and large depth of deep breathing, from the psychological "off" excited mood, to reduce some "pressure" level. If the process of sexual intercourse in a short time to repeat this procedure, the habit of 2 to 3 minutes of sexual intercourse will be extended 2 to 3 times the time.

Sex skills 4, with cold water to the scrotum cooling
Before making love, help him to the scrotum with cold water (better ice water) wet, so that the contraction of the reaction, careful not to wet the penis, in the sex you will feel that regardless of his hardness or duration are significantly improved The In addition, the sex process in the suspension of sexual intercourse, and out of the penis slightly "defeated" 1 to 2 seconds, will let the men or women have more sense of expectation.

Bisexual establishment of the six conditions

In a report on sexuality, a woman answered her bisexual tendencies.
"I have sex with a woman for about two years, that experience is really a wonderful experience, I never felt who is so close to me, who so love me. I used to think I will always prefer But now I find that I also like to have a sexual relationship with the man I love.If that relationship in the two sexual relations are really good ... ... At present, I only and a man of sexual behavior, But if the opportunity to appear on their own, I will once again and women have sexual relations.
A man who claims to be a male heterosexual is worried about himself because he often produces sexual fantasies with sexual colleagues or friends of the same sex when he is in sexual intercourse with his wife, and he feels free to his wife and his colleagues Have good feelings.

Bisexual people tend to have such a few:
1 have not yet determined their own sexual orientation of the youth, while trying two kinds of experience.
2 Sexual relationship with a certain sex person, but the mind is another person.
3 with a strong emotional relationship as an intermediary, with both the positive tendency to love both sexes.
4 For the reasons of personal growth and education, the importance of gender is neglected.
5 through comparison and selection, rationally decided that bisexuality is the most able to meet their own emotional and sexual requirements of the sexual orientation.
6 can not decide their sexual orientation, always swing between the sexes
What places may exist bisexual?
Temporary isolation or long-distance travel and lack of heterosexual homosexual environment, will make heterosexual tendencies in a short period of time to produce homosexual acts to release the repression. Such as the army, the prison, the concentration camp, the ocean fleet. In general, when leaving these environments, this tendency to homosexuality is declared to end. Therefore, this kind of homosexuality can also be called opportunistic homosexuals, because a certain environmental factors caused by "pseudo" homosexuals, called bisexual tendencies more appropriate.

"Bisexual" Superstar(2)

5. Marlon Brando
 Oscar actor Marlon Brando died very miserable, despite the romantic past, but one of the most ridiculous or with a actor's homosexuality. Marlon Brando has had countless women in his life, and he calls himself a total of nine women, but rumors that there are at least 25, of which there are six lover for his suicide. As for the same sex lover, Brando himself is difficult to say

6. Paul Newman
 After the death of Paul Newman, the most shocking is his gay scandal. It is reported that a generation of star Malone Brando before the death had revealed that Paul Newman and his romantic and bisexual tendencies, but also playing the other side in the filming took the grace Kelly and Marilyn dream Dew, and with the same late actor James Dean had a broken love.

7. Angelina Jolie
 Who can understand Angelina? She was playing lesbian, female satyr, female artist, female psychosis, female agent, female scientist, female killer, the most well known is her sexy beauty, and she married Brad Pitt after admitting his double Sex, and claim that they like sorrow. Jolie image has always been very maverick, and now this statement more proof of her distinctive personality.

8. Lindsay Lohan
 In 2008, Hollywood actress Lindsay Lohan, in an interview with Harper'sBazaar magazine in December, frankly admitted that he was bisexual, but refused to admit that he is gay, her explanation is: "I do not want to own What kind of class, because never know what will happen in the future.

9.  Megan Fox
 Known as Angelina successor of Megan Fox, also exposed is a bisexual. The actress Austin Greene drew the actress said she liked the woman, but not dating a bisexual woman because she did not want to share the same woman with another man. Megan that people are born bisexual, forced by social pressure to make subconscious choices.

"Bisexual" Superstar(1)

1. Tiger Woods
 And fall into a greater scandal, one of his mistress Dora Jenny Julie Ferrer broke the news that the world's top stars not only outside the affair, but also gay boyfriend, the news came out, the media suddenly uproar. In fact, in the entertainment circle, like Woods this "sex to the unknown" a lot of stars, they confuse the sexual orientation, often become the media and the public talk about the topic.

2. Will Smith
 From Will no scandal life, do not see its homosexual tendencies: he married in 1992, 3 years after divorce; 1997 remarriage, gave birth to a child 1 woman, a family happy. Has always been known as the Hollywood model husband, he recently in Japan to promote new works when prostitutes, but also male prostitutes, Will's bisexual sex scandal so surfaced.

3. John Travolta
 Hollywood actor John Travolta looks like a happy family and already has an 8-year-old daughter, but the US media has published a photo of his close kiss with his male partner, but John denied: "We do Love each other, but we are the feelings of buddies! "For a time people can not figure out whether he is gay or bisexual.

4. Tom Cruise
  Tom Cruise Daddy has been more than two years, the little daughter Suri inherited the advantages of their parents, childhood is a beautiful embryo. However, even so, the outside world about his homosexual rumors have not been interrupted. All along, Tom Cruise has been suspected of Hollywood is a typical homosexuality, and his divorce with Nicole Kidman also confirmed this point. Although he does not recognize, but there are media that Tom Cruise family again but to end their bisexual sex scandal.

Actress exposure "bisexual" to grab the topic

1. Madonna
Madonna was a number of media broke the news is bisexual, she often in the concert and female dancers or actress crazy crazy kiss, the most well-known and "Britney Spears" Britney's "century kiss "Last year, Madonna and" fruit sister "Katie Perry shot a group of SM theme of large-scale photo

2. Kate Blanchett
"Queen" Kate Blanchett in the new film "card lo" and Rooney Mara interpretation of a married lady and the young clerk between the same sex, in the play outside of her interview with the magazine claimed to have repeatedly Female contacts, shocked bisexuality to, but then in the Cannes Film Festival on the face of the reporter asked, Blanchett also denied that bisexuality, and accused reporters out of context.

3. Michelle Rodriguez
"Speed and Passion" actress Michelle Rodriguez and Van Diesel have a brief interaction, after breaking up is still a friend, and later she admits the magazine bisexual, one after another with the British supermodel Carla Diwa , The United States handsome Zach Effron dating, peach blossom a stick.

4. Kristen Stewart
"Twilight" Kristen Stewart for the cheating married director, with the vampire guy Robert Patting Sen broke up, Patting Sen has a new romance has also been an engagement, 25-year-old Stewart and former assistant Alicia · Cargill closer and closer, the two recently traveled many times, like kissing face, triggering her emotional love girls doubt.

Love bisexual woman is what kind of feeling?

 I began to like a bisexual girl from the age of 13, crush for 4 years, until she was 17 years old crossing the ocean. What it feels like, to girlfriend's identity for her to do all things. Can not say that the love of exports is really painful, but pain is willing to fall.

Like to see her lively figure, like to see her roll up or loose long hair, like to listen to her sweet and firm voice. Her smile, her joy and anger, her body a touch of fragrance, her handsome writing. She listened to the song, she liked the writer, her clothes brand, her new bought hair ornaments. Her everything. Always want to join her every moment. We go to school together, even if the road is not the same home.
    In the morning I was waiting for her at the entrance of the school, and then with her through the layers of shade covered long school road. Dusk we go out of the classroom together, in different directions of the station forklift dispute who should first accompany the car. Of course I usually lose Class when we pick the adjacent seat to sit together, tired when she will lean on my shoulder, sometimes I will rely on her. Can not see the blackboard when she pulled over the notebook to see, when the head of the first time to sit together and say a whisper.
    We look at the same novel, drink the same cup of drinks, share the same pair of headphones, hold the same umbrella. She has a big hellokitty umbrella, I have to abandon that too little girl, but she said, so that you can hold the next two people ah. I know her almost all close relatives, nothing even when she and her mother will send two text messages. I was a frequent visitor to her dinner table, and her grandmother even knew that I liked spicy food. We had to lie together in her bed for a break in the morning. Zhou is full of her body a faint aroma. How many times want to raise her hand clinging to her, but still can not be courage.
    We share all the secrets that can be shared. Except I love her.

    In addition to every time she stared at her heart constantly repeated repeated, we can not be together. What kind of love is then simple and blazing ah, as long as the thought may be lost, it has been dying. And even waved goodbye to her next moment off the eyes. Then she began to have a boyfriend. Like every little girl in love, she began to talk to me about the things between them. Their sweet their quarrels, their tacit understanding their disagreement Handset side, her tone cheerful, ramble to say non-stop; listeners here, I pretend to smile but sour to the bottom of my heart. So what about it, as long as she is happy. She sometimes said I was harsh on her boyfriend's request. But I can not control it. I always want to give her the best, including love, but I can not give it.
    In this way, we went from junior high school to the same high school, from ignorant little girl grow into a slim girl. Home of the road for a, but we still go together. The playground became bigger, we did not walk together again. She began to think about thinking SAT ready to go abroad, I still in the college entrance examination of the chaos alone in the insistence. This time, I do the problem to do upset throwing pen throwing the book no longer have her softly appease. This time, when I met the sudden rain can only propped his umbrella a person to go. This time, my tears are no longer always for her flow. When she got the dream of the offer, I told myself, this is really the end of the.
    This is not any good outcome of the possible crush, the end of the.
    And when I finally tried to put her down for a long time, really put down her. Is still close friends, just become exceptionally relaxed. I was once afraid that when I lost her, I still did not like to love her as a person's ability to love. In fact, the answer to now I have not found. 

Shakespeare is bisexual?

Shakespeare is more or less a prodigal son, it is undeniable. He had to an unknown married woman sent 26 rhetoric of the fourteen Quotes of the poem, the woman is the poem "Shadow Lady." But in addition, the world's most respected romantic poet, whether occasionally attracted by men? On whether Shakespeare is bisexual, scholars are still debating. He is a bisexual scholar that he has sent a man to 126 sonnet, the man is the poem referred to as the "young aristocracy." His only published sonnet during his lifetime is dedicated to a mysterious "Mr. WH"; and, in his will, Shakespeare will donate his money to his male friend John Haimings, Richard · Bobby, Henry Chandell, and made it clear that they would use the money to buy a memorial ring to commemorate the intimate friendship between them. Such evidence of some of the evidence, has let the academic community to figure out for decades.
According to the British "Daily Mail" reported，A book review of Shakespeare's sonnets led to the Shakespearean literary masters around the world who questioned Shakespeare's sonnets to prove that they had a heated discussion for homosexuals.
University of London visiting professor Brian Vickers is the initiator of the debate. In a letter to the Times' literary supplements, Vickers condemned a book review of Shakespeare's sonnet 116 (Sonnet 116). In response to the book's comment, "This is Gay Psalms," Vickers says that the search for autobiographical information in the sonnet is "extremely inappropriate" because love is not just sex Not everyone will suggest sexual attraction in his works, and Shakespeare is writing poems as a poet.
However, Arthur Freeman disagreed with Vickers' point of view, and he pointed out that "no researcher will remove homosexual and bisexual views from the sonnet, or why Shakespeare will "If you really just use the sonnet as a dramatic story, how can we explain Shakespeare's work in his work?" And he said, Continue to show aging, bald, lame and other fragile poor bisexual image ramble on the rejection and betrayal of the pain?
Another scholar, Wells, also responded to Vick's remarks. He mentioned that Shakespeare had pleaded with a woman named Anne Hathaway in his sonnet, In the first 135 of the poems, Shakespeare 13 times expressed the desire for sex through the word 'will', so that the homosexual content of Shakespeare 's works was created according to his own actual experience, and there was no basis for it.
Even Shakespeare actor Ian Buchley said publicly in 2012 that although Shakespeare was married and had children, he was based on his own study of Shakespeare's play and that Shakespeare was a true bisexual Lover. "Everyone has the right to think freely, but Professor Wells's remarks will have an adverse effect on Shakespeare's literary research, because if everyone treats Shakespeare's poems as" the opponents, "Vickers said. His autobiography, then they will no longer be concerned about the poetic implication of the mood, but the sexual aspects of the event.
It is said that Shakespeare presented the first edition of his own sonnet to "Mr W H", and the many speculations about Shakespeare's homosexual love came from it. With regard to Mr W H's identity, it is believed that the most likely should be Shakespeare's friend Henry Wriothesley or William Herbert.

And Oscar Wilde believes that "Mr W H" is a male runner named Willie Hughes, who is the same person as the "beautiful teenager" in the poem. Wilde's theory also explains the meaning of "will" in the poem。

Bisexual also have the right to marriage

It is mentioned that "only gay and lesbian, bisexual and transgender people who have marital demands are not pleading in marriage"; as a bisexual group, this is far from our experience.
Bisexuality requires homosexual marriage. Bisexual beings seem to be able to tolerate homosexuality or heterosexual groups, often considered not to require any additional rights, but in fact, bisexual "not only like a sex" life experience, often only be interpreted as "or Can be like the opposite sex "; and when the marriage system is limited to the opposite sex, even if the bisexual desire to stay with the same sex partner, often with the same sex partner on their own" will eventually go (with the opposite sex) marriage "insecurity. How many bisexuals into the heterosexual marriage due to social pressure, "was" to become heterosexual; society can not see the situation of bisexual forced, and now the product is not to say "bisexual do not need same-sex marriage" Is not it insulting?
Furthermore, we need not the opposite sex marriage and same-sex marriage, but marriage equal power. Taiwan is now under the marriage system, the original is not based on the family line, the adoption of their children and even children without couples operating different types of families, rights and interests are also protected; visible even the opposite sex marriage, no longer based on reproduction, if And then cut the marriage authority between the opposite sex, not only does not meet the equal thinking, but also do not meet the civilized social life of love and married needs. Moreover, when we only argue that the same sex or heterosexual marriage rights, it is not conducive to the real implementation of the right - "double" sexual life experience is kind of "beyond the single" concept, only triumphant (sex) That is different (sex) dichotomy, return to the fundamental equality of all, the real understanding and acceptance of bisexual also have a beginning.
Marriage is not just homosexual needs, but the power of marriage should not be exclusive heterosexual relationship; protect the family together with LGBT, etc. vocabulary, seemingly international, in fact, but in order to divide the crowd, never see the living Life experience. People have the freedom to choose not to marry, there are free to choose to marry, should be able to choose who want to marry; not only homosexuality, not only bisexual, everyone needs marriage equal.