1.Know that many bisexuals are not biased in sex. Even a lot of people who finally get married will change their sexual orientation because they feel changed. When you start and a bisexual relationship, they are ready to accept them to be attracted by the opposite sex, the same, normal or homosexuality will be attracted to the opposite sex. Remember, if this person first date you, it is because they like you this person.
Even if bisexual likes two sexes, it does not mean that they will like everyone. They are bounded by the standard, and others. You do not ask him "like a man or a woman sex" problem, if you are dealing with each other, you must think that they like is "you".
2.Respect the sexual characteristics of dating objects, which is part of their identity. Understand that most of the time they are a kind of person, because of this so they have "double" sex. No matter when they are dating, most bisexuals think they are bisexual. If they are in the opposite sex, do not treat them as heterosexual, and do not because they and homosexuals put them as homosexuals.
Similarly, they have a good impression on the opposite sex friends or same-sex friends, you do not feel strange, if you want to maintain and their relationship, just accept them like.
Some people will separate their sexual orientation and behavior, sexual orientation for the double, but the behavior (at least present) performance for heterosexuality, or homosexuality. It is normal, are within the normal range.
3.Bisexuality is not "transforming". Not long ago, homosexuality was completely unacceptable, and as a result, many homosexuals claimed that they were bisexual, and the results brought some trouble. This is very detrimental to those who are actually bisexual. But the actual situation should not be the case, although some people will change, gradually realize (or let them realize) that they are homosexual - but others will find themselves really bisexual.
Worry that your object will eventually "change" into homosexuality or "change" straight, it is normal. There is such a possibility, but the possibility is not big. Anyway, now they are like you - this is the focus.
Second：The consolidation of the relationship
1.With your partner object seriously into a relationship, and any other person you should choose the same sex. To understand that if they like you like the same sex or the opposite sex, they are not "lie to you". This is the same as straight men or homosexuals like other heterosexuals. Remember, your object is like you, know that they want to continue with you, will make your relationship will be more solid.
In a serious relationship, the object should not only be your lover, but also your best friend, the most trusted person. If you do not have this, do not start - but you have to remember: for example, a complete heterosexual will often like the opposite sex, but they are still with you, bisexual is exactly the same.
2.Do not be jealous. It is certain that, in terms of sexuality, the world is open to them. At least open, just not exactly that. They still have some standard, thank you! If so, bisexuals give them "more" choice, bisexual men and women they can like - and you are one of them!
Of course, do not let these affect your knowledge of yourself. You do not have to be more man or more woman. At first you know your own sexual orientation, so it is very good. Like people who like both sexes do not mean they will also like two people at the same time.
3.Thinking to be open. Some people think that bisexual is not good, so bisexuals have special difficulties. However, bisexuality is only another manifestation of human diversity. You will not discriminate against other races and sects of people right, this thing is no different?
Other people will feel that asking you and bisexual communication is your own right. They will openly doubt whether the relationship with you is justified, or feel a bit strange or pessimistic. This kind of people thinking old, simply not worth mentioning. How happy you are, how happy is the most important.
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