I went to a classmate to play, unfortunately caught up with the mother and daughter war, my mother against her daughter to pay boyfriend, mother and daughter for this dispute is very intense, it seems no one wants to compromise. Suddenly the daughter threw a word to make the room quietly down. Daughter said that if the parents insisted on opposing, she went to like girls. Listening to her daughter, the mother seems to be scared, and no longer sound.
At that time, I knew that the original sex between the other than in addition to friends and other ways to get along.
And later heard a lot of topics on this subject. In the psychological clinic also contacted a lot of sexual orientation to do the case of counseling. The last one is on Friday, a young couple, married 3 years of husband and wife sex life less than 3 times, here, many people will think that is not a husband's physical function is flawed, his wife sure that her husband no problem in this area , But no matter how sexy she hugged her husband seems no interest.
The reason is not the wife, but the husband's sexual orientation.
Now in addition to heterosexual and homosexual, bisexuals are more and more. It may be now dare to admit that they have a bisexual complex more and more people. It is said that Angelina Jolie has admitted his "double" orientation.
In fact, pure heterosexuality or homosexuality is a minority, a survey, asked respondents from an absolute homosexuality to absolute heterosexual continuous change in the sexual orientation of the spectrum to assess their own, and then the results of a comprehensive analysis of the study. The results show that most people show at least to some extent bisexual.
Many people are attracted by bisexuality, although usually they are only biased towards a certain sex, only a few people are absolutely homosexual or heterosexual. On the contrary, only a few people are "completely" bisexual.
And bisexuality is not now, history and modern society are no lack of its people, such as Socrates. Another example is the Chinese history of the Han Emperor, Han emperor; generals such as the Han Dynasty Huo Guang, Kong Wu powerful, such as Ming Wu Zong favored by Jiang Bin; scourge such as Han Dongxian, Qing Dynasty and Shen; artists such as the Han Dynasty musicians Li Yannian, the Qing Dynasty Zheng Banqiao and so on. Bisexual beings exist in all walks of life, these people all chapel married, have children, never to homosexual self.
Bisexual people are interested in men and are also interested in women. This interest may be both emotional and sexual. Ancient Chinese culture, homosexuals, heterosexuals, bisexuals, these concepts, vocabulary does not exist, because never according to "sexual behavior" to classify people. The traditional idea that as long as the expression of natural and normal emotions, do not disturb the human race clan order, homosexuality is not wrong.
However, people can not be alone, because we are social attributes, so before the composition of marriage and family, we need to understand their other half of the attitude of the matter, if the other does not mind or can be inclusive, of course, marriage is stable, but Psychological clinic there is no lack of marriage to know her husband or wife have the same sex or bisexual orientation, and then divorce.
Although the need for privacy, but must be clear the difference between privacy and concealment, after all, marriage is the need for both sides to operate together, rather than a cover for their sexual orientation under the guise.
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